Showing posts with label monastic schedule. Show all posts
Showing posts with label monastic schedule. Show all posts

Monday, November 24, 2014

Monastic Laundry

Not an actual photo from the monastery :)  

November 24, 2014
Day 208

I was a young monk for just over four years, and for all four of those years, I was on laundry duty almost every week.  Always on a Saturday, and always with three or four other monks, laundry day meant doing the entire monastery's wash for the entire week. 

With 34 monks going through seven pairs of underwear and seven undershirts each, plus all their white dress shirts, socks, weekend and evening clothes, and assorted other items like tablecloths, sheets, towels, and napkins, it was an enormous amount of work!  All of the white shirts had to be ironed too, which was a job unto itself!

(Oh, how I wished we could all just wear traditional brown robes instead!)

Even with four or five monks working all day long from 9 to 5 with two brief coffee breaks plus lunch, we never finished everything.  Invariably, Brother Larry ended up doing more during the week. 

Each brother had his own cubby hole for laundry.  Dress shirts and pants were hung up separately.  You'd squeeze as much folded laundry as you could into the generously sized box for each monk, and then leave leftovers on the table in front of the box.  (I'd often pass a bit of silent judgment on the monks who went through more clothes than the rest.)

I don't think about those days much when I'm complaining about the one or two loads I do for Andy and me each week, but I probably should.  Perspective is, once again, one of my greatest teachers. 

The monastic laundry room was sometimes monastic, sometimes downright silly, and sometimes even contentious.  Most of all though?  It was a cooperative effort that always, always, always left us with a sense of pride and accomplishment.  We worked hard and worked quickly for the whole day, and when we were finally done, we knew we'd done something major, together.

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Creature of Habit

May 14, 2014.

I don't know if it was the four years of living in a monastery that did it to me, but for my entire adult life at least, I've come to really enjoy my various routines.  Schedules and sameness are comforting, and though I'm game for whatever come the weekend, I really enjoy keeping to the same routines Monday to Friday.

In my years as a monk, my schedule looked something like this:

5:15 Wake up, shave, and shower
6:00 Morning Prayer and Mass in the chapel
7:00 Breakfast with the community
7:30 Clean up breakfast for the community
8:00 Leave for Manhattan College
9:05 First class
6:00 Get home from Manhattan College
6:20 Meditation in the chapel
6:40 Evening Prayer in the chapel
7:00 Dinner with the community
8:30 House class (class at home in the monastery with the other Young Brothers, various topics relating to monastic life)
9:30 Night Prayer in the chapel
10:00 Great Silence (supposed to be quiet and in bed, or at least in our rooms).  This is when we'd start doing the bulk of our schoolwork and reading for classes at Manhattan.

It wasn't easy, but on Saturdays we'd get to sleep in.  Mass wasn't until 8:00 AM!  Woo-hoo! 

In my home life now, my schedule looks something like this:

7:00 Alarm goes off for the first time
7:10 Alarm goes off for the second time
7:20 Alarm goes off for the third and final time
7:30 I finally get up, make the coffee, and prepare breakfast
7:40 I shave
7:50 I eat breakfast
8:00 I brush my teeth and shower
8:20 I leave for work
8:45 I arrive to work
1:00 Salad, always the same, then a walk around the park
5:00 I head to the gym at my job (a 1-minute walk)
5:50 I finish at the gym and head home
6:15 Home, do situps and lift weights, have a bowl of Cheerios
7:45 Dinner (most often a grilled chicken sandwich)
10:30 Brush my teeth, get in bed to read
11:00 Lights out and sleep

It'll vary a little here and there, but that's my schedule for the most part, and I like it!  Certainly more sleep and an easier life than when I was commuting to the Bronx for college, and trying to manage a tight monastic schedule too!

Maybe schedules aren't so bad.  If nothing else, they keep us moving forward.