Showing posts with label seandy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label seandy. Show all posts

Thursday, April 23, 2015

Guest Blogger: Andy

April 23, 2015
Day 358

For the past year, Sean has diligently written a blog entry every day.  Many weekends I would tell him to just relax and post something the next day, that no one would notice.  Without fail though, he made sure an entry was always written and posted.  

Today, Sean has turned the reins over to me for a guest blog entry.  I’m very excited that he’s almost done with this project, and honored that he’s asked me to contribute an entry, so let’s see how I do...

As we both approach 40, I’m always amazed at the pace of technology.  Just the concept of a cell phone or a digital camera 20 years ago was abstract and expensive, but today it’s taken for granted.  This makes me curious about the technological singularity that is theorized for the mid-century.  We’ll just have to wait and see where our self-driving cars take us, I suppose.

On a random note, yesterday was Earth Day, which always makes me think about the awful environmental conditions future generations will inherit.  It seems we are developing every conceivable inch of the planet just to satisfy consumer demand for food or products, but I do hope we can reverse this trend at some point.

Today at work is “bring your kids to work day”, one of my favorite days at the office!  Everyone lets their hair down for the day, and we all get free ice cream in the afternoon!

Anyway, I guess I’ll end there.  I’d like to say congratulations to Sean for all the hard work he’s done writing this blog, day after day.  I’m looking forward to seeing it in book form where I can flip through each day, and catch up on all the entries I’ve missed.

Sunday, February 1, 2015

What is a seandy?

February 1, 2015
Day 277

Seandy (capitalized at times, but not always) is pronounced two different ways.  Andy and others pronounce the Sean while others and I pronounce the Andy (with a sh sound in front, like shandy).

It's a perfect combination of both our names, but when did I first start using it?  I'm really not sure. 

We first spoke online on June 7, 2001:
Hi Sean, My name is Andy, and I'm from W. Babylon.  Saw your personal ad...

We spoke in instant messages for the first time on June 16th:
Andy [11:50 AM]:  Hi Sean, this is Andy, I e-mailed you from xy
Sean [11:50 AM]:  hi again, i was wonderin if you had disappeared
Andy [11:50 AM]:  Yeah, been kinda busy these days, keeping the computer off.
Sean [11:51 AM]:  oh okay, well so how r u?
Sean [11:51 AM]:  have we talked on im yet?
Andy [11:51 AM]:  Doing good, no we haven't talked yet, are you online a lot?
Sean [11:52 AM]:  less lately, but yes, still always a few times a day in the evening
Sean [11:52 AM]:  wekeneds all the time
Sean [11:52 AM]:  depending on plans
Andy [11:54 AM]:  How is your summer going?

We didn't speak much that summer, and then September 11th happened. Andy was working a few blocks away that day, got covered in ash (he said it was falling like snow), but we weren't really talking much at that point, so I didn't even realize he was so close to it all.  And of course the nightmare of that day haunted us all for a long time after (I literally had nightmares daily for a month afterward).  Finally, some time that fall, we set a plan to meet.

It was Saturday, December 1, 2001, a record warm day, with temperatures reaching 68 degrees Fahrenheit (20 Celsius).  We both knew right away that first night that we were on a date with someone special, someone we really, really liked.  Somewhere in my piles of papers and notebooks here, I have a notebook page in which I chronicled our first 7-10 dates or so, and I remember when I first asked him if we could use the "b" word--boyfriends. 

And the rest, as they say, is history!  Seandy was born, and we both feel very blessed and lucky to have found each other!